Grooms, You Can Take Charge!

Gone are the days where the bride handles all preparations of the wedding with her mother or her best friend and the groom is  only incharge of the groomsmen gifts. Smart men, nowadays, understand that they need to be an accomplice when dealing with all the details for the perfect wedding. From flower decorations to the bar, a masculine touch will definitely create a more balanced aura.

Planning a Wedding together is a start of spending your lifetime with each other.; Handling the details can be very stressful but at the same time very rewarding too. Every woman loves it when their man  are involved .    

Let us give you some more reasons  as to why the Grooms involvement will make the wedding more special.

Décor: Flowers are probably a must in your bride’s list and arguing on that might not get you anywhere. But being an active planner for the décor and floral arrangements for the big day might get you royal blue and white tulips or blood red roses amongst black ferns instead of a pure pink and white combo.

Music: Selecting  out songs to be played at the wedding or  the band with your bride to be will bring about a more hip and fun ambience to the dance floor; as opposed to her mother’s or girly best friend’s choices. Your friends and groomsmen are surely going to appreciate and dance to your tunes and so will your bride’s friends. Having a live classical solo is probably the last thing you’d want on your big day.

Feast: Would you want to remember starving or watching guests silently gulping down their food with fake smiles on their faces? Not that we are saying that your bride to be is going to pick out a row of horrible entrees and main courses, but voicing out your favorite dishes wouldn’t do any harm would it? It is less likely for a man to allow a caterer’s marketing plan of their new specialties, come in between him and his stomach. 

Surprise Surprise: Finally, win the hearts of your in laws and other guests with a little surprise performance for the love of your life. Whether in the form of a poem or song or even a small dance performance with a few of the family members, it will be memorable and will signify your involvement for the big day.  The tears and smiles all blended together on your bride’s face will all be worthy. Not the sentimental type? No worries make your impact with a fun-filled, comic speech of how you both met.
Think of it this way... When you watch your wedding video many years from now, you’ll be proud to note that you had an active part in the planning process and all that’s done was done by you together, as a team. Else you might watch the video and feel like a stranger. The moments will hold more special to you rather than for a groom who simply hid behind the bar. So grooms, what are you waiting for? Take charge!